Blissful Ignorance

Thanx, its cute huh? Heero typing in large "I LUV U" to Relena. I was cruising through my 1xR pic folder and that one shouted "make an avatar outta me!" not really but ya know?

Yo!

I read the part about your training, and I was wondering: what kind of training do you undergo? I train by myself in fighting skills, just to surprise people . They NEVER expect that small puny girl to lift some 5 pound weights easy as pie ^^.

LOL. Um...actually I do alot. Some of it is just losing weight, tons of it is fighting skills, sum r gymastics, n im still tryin 2 climb up a wall/tree n a flip n landing gracefully on da ground!

um...dere r a ton more, sum of my training is mental training, as in emotion controlling n shit....i think dats about it.

Oooohhh, ok ^^

Rei is it possible that you train to much?

I have a question, but maybe I answered it for myself and I just don't know it. here it is:

Dear deathroseaiko,

I have this guy friend. I've known him for just under two years now. At first it was slow getting to know him, but as we worked at the same place, an easy friendship was struck. I continued to spend time with him. My friends and I ate lunch with him, I was the one that mainly talked to him. People began to say we flirted a lot and that we should go out and a few even said he should take me to prom! But I never really felt that way towards him. However, the more time I began to spend with him the stronger my feelings for him got. And when we spent one on one time it was so much fun. I've had people tell me that they think he makes me happy and I should make a move. Unfortunately he has a girlfriend. And from what I hear, they're pretty serious. I've never told him how I feel and now I'm going away to college. Should I just put him in the past and let him think we are just friends. Should it just stay the same. (I'm going to keep in touch with him while at college) I'm so confused, I could use a little guidance....

You know Mellie your question was in perfect timing cause I was thinking about that this morning. Sometimes you can't really hide from love but sometimes its an illusion. I'd say go for it but you should always try to make sure that it doesn't come between your friendship.

You'll be keeping in touch with him in college, so theres a diffrent apporach I can also give you. Try to contuine to know him, try to sort out your feelings to seriously know if you really do like him in the way you do. And maybe try to ask him if he would take you to the prom if you think you are sure of your feelings towards him.

I have around....40 male friends and a lot of people say that we flirt a lot (meaning me and all 40 of them ) and that we should go out. I just find it weird to date someone whose your friend so I'd say never but its not impossible.

He may have a girlfriend and PEOPLE say that they're serious, but find out for sure from him, to make sorting out your feelings easier. I don't think you should push him towards the past if he's going to be with you in college, when you have certain emotions for someone, pushing them in the back of your mind isn't the best way. Not only do your emotions and mind keep brining him back and you keep clinging on to him even if you don't know it, he's going to keep popping up.



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Lady Casper: Yes I do train a lot, but I love it, it's my salvation.




To Mellie:

I hope I helped in any way.

thanks a bunch! It has helped clear some things. I guess I'll keep it a friendship and see how things go (He's a year younger than me and still in high school) So...I'll see how things go while we're apart! And you helped me see that having guys friends can be just that. No strings, no dating, just friends.

LOL. Well having 40 guy friends (who are kinda of perverts and always has a handful of sex jokes on hand) kinda makes me a know it all...I think.

deathroseaiko wrote:LOL. Well having 40 guy friends (who are kinda of perverts and always has a handful of sex jokes on hand) kinda makes me a know it all...I think.

ALL guys are perverts and love to talk about sex At least till tehy're virgins