Ask Death about Life?(Real Advice Column)

[deathroseaiko]

Ask Death about Life?

Now that's weird. LOL But hey I give advice out on my site, in school, so I thought maybe I'd try here.

Now I don't want to compete with Ask Heero, but I'm trying with Ask Death Questions of Life.

So PLEASE ASK ME ANYTHING! From life, to date, to love, to everything you want to have a second thought about!

Who to date. Where to go, What to wear, the smallest things can be muttered and will be answered within a day!

Just give me a chance. Please? :razz:

BTW: I have a lot of paitence and so forth because I don't really have any emotions and anger comes to me easily if we are face to face but we can talk about anything.

I have anger and I'm very insighted and paitent when it comes to relationship questions even though I've never been in one, I've been surronded by millions of them. And parties? No big deal honey, I live in parties all the time. And I'm not preppy or anything.

Trust me, I'll give you really good advice.

Peace.

Just give: Ask Death Questions of Life a chance...please?

[Lady Casper]

Ok heres one for you. Say you weren't sure if an argument was really your fault or not but you feel as though it wasnt your fault should you apologize to your friend even though its still a problem :-?

[deathroseaiko]

Well if you feel that it isn't your fault, I still think personally that you should apolgize for aruging intensely or whatever but you should admit that you didn't think it was your fault. I mean it's best to be honest and not be bitter in the future. Especially if you're going to lose a friend over it.

Just be truthful and say sorry for the areas you know you did wrong in. That's your best ticket into solving something like that.

[Lady Casper]

That sounds like a really good idea.

One problem cuz i was mad at my friend she is ignoring me and wont listen to a thing i say.

[deathroseaiko]

Well if you are mad at her and she's ignoring you, try other ways to get her to listen to you. Like a letter in her locker or having one of your friends make her go to a room and lock her in there with you and won't let you out until she listens to what you have to say!

Or you could just keep trying until eventually it annoys her so much that she just has to. And when she does, make sure she doesn't walk away or interuppt! Yeah, I think that's a good way.

[Lady Casper]

Hmm the like the idea of lockin her in a room just without me in it. Or a locker...hmmm.


Now i have to stop. Thanks deathroseaiko

appriciate it.

[tornin1/2]

Okay, I have a question to ask, I might as well go straight to the point. I know many of my closest friends cut themselves, and sometimes one of them, when I?m like really really feeling low, advices me to do the same to release my anger and pain, she says that coco butter hides the scars, well sometimes the decision really gets difficult, especially since ur surrounded by people you like and trust that do the same, yet you have to think about your religion and your culture and if something goes wrong what could happen. What should I do to stop myself from finally not caring and just doing it?

[deathroseaiko]

First off, cutting yourself is a major problem for people. People cut themselves because they want to replace emotional pain with physical pain.

You should find something in your life worth holding onto. Your dream, your thoughts, what you really hold close to you is something that can fight the temption to cut yourself. I mean if you cut yourself, you are getting closer to a chance of death and you are going to lose a lot of chances. You can possibly lose everything you work for or everything you hope for.

Now take it from me, I think a lot about death infact I kinda live in the shadows of death but I would never cut myself. I have a future ahead of me that I work so hard for, and I'm never going to lose any chance of not getting it.

So basically hold on to whatever is in the future you hope for because that's your weapon to fight the temption of cutting yourself.

And secondly, you shouldn't cut yourself just because people close to you are. And another thing is that if you were a real friend, and I'm sorry to sound like I'm judging your friendship but I'm truly not, but if you were a friend, you should try to make sure they don't die because of a mistake like cutting.

[deathroseaiko]

Oh yeah and BTW, to those people who find it stupid and werid to talk to a 13 year old about any of their issues, I'll tell you this:

First off I'm FAR mature than any 13-16 year old you'll ever know. Trust me, you have not felt any pain or sorrow that I've felt in my life. So I think that if you can't seem to be mature enough to ask me questions just because I'm 13, than that's stupid.

You can trust a computer to do things for you, but you can't trust someone like me to help you? Life is full of things that you wish never existed and there are some where you might want to kill yourself, but if you are offered a chance to be helped, take it.

Because in life, you are going to need all the help you can get.

And I'm one of them okay. I seriously mean that I'm good at what I do. I'm mature far from anyone you'll ever know even those who are older than me. Bescause I'm realistic, I'm actually VERY realistic, not someone who buries myself in anything.

So if you can't handle taking advice from me, than you're immature.

Deathroseaiko, Shero Rei Tamashii, take the names into heart, because my name makes me.

[tornin1/2]

thanx, oh and the thing with my friendship is that it is wierd, no one would understand it because they might think that we hate each other when we are really close, and i do try to tell my friends to stop cutting themselves. One of them says that she does it because its fun and she doesn't feel a thing, she doesn't do it to kill herself you see. the other one i believe that she does it to get in with this goth/grundge crowd that are sorta our friends too. so you see, no matter how hard or much i try to tell them, they just won't listen.