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Wow that was a quick response! Thanks tons! I wanna hear what Heero says as well. But I'll keep that in mind! 

" Speaking from my three classes in psychology, two of which I cut..." ~ Hawkeye Pierce M*A*S*H
" I'm knitting these days..." ~ Meredith Grey's Anatomy
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" I'm knitting these days..." ~ Meredith Grey's Anatomy
" Hi we're not here right now so leave a beep after your message, Beep! " ~ Amanda Bell, my 8 yr old cousin... cutest little girl alive.
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- Writing fanfic is not a terrorist action|Mech Pilot Fanboy
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I'm saying that because if you soften up to him, then it'll blow your resolve and eventually your self confidence. If you soften up to him, who knows what you're gonna accept next. You broke up, and that's that. If he can't deal with it, then there's nothing to do. It's his problem.
Especially considering that you wrote your message in a kind of fearing tone. If you are scared of seeing him again, then don't.
And if he harasses you against your will (I don't think he can harass you if your willing...), then you can call for help. He doesn't have the right to follow you everywhere you go in hopes of getting on your good side and trying to force you into a new relationship. (I doubt he'D go that far, however. They usually get a clue.)
If i'm saying all this, it's because I know that a break-up hurts, and that it's difficult to get over it, but it's necessary if you want to move on.
Especially considering that you wrote your message in a kind of fearing tone. If you are scared of seeing him again, then don't.
And if he harasses you against your will (I don't think he can harass you if your willing...), then you can call for help. He doesn't have the right to follow you everywhere you go in hopes of getting on your good side and trying to force you into a new relationship. (I doubt he'D go that far, however. They usually get a clue.)
If i'm saying all this, it's because I know that a break-up hurts, and that it's difficult to get over it, but it's necessary if you want to move on.

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Thanks for the good advice, Ill be sure to remember that when im in TN over the weekend. Thanks for your help and making me feel better!
Can I add you to my friend list?
Can I add you to my friend list?
" Speaking from my three classes in psychology, two of which I cut..." ~ Hawkeye Pierce M*A*S*H
" I'm knitting these days..." ~ Meredith Grey's Anatomy
" Hi we're not here right now so leave a beep after your message, Beep! " ~ Amanda Bell, my 8 yr old cousin... cutest little girl alive.
"I've gone to find myself. If you see me before I get back, keep me here so I'll know where I am."
" I'm knitting these days..." ~ Meredith Grey's Anatomy
" Hi we're not here right now so leave a beep after your message, Beep! " ~ Amanda Bell, my 8 yr old cousin... cutest little girl alive.
"I've gone to find myself. If you see me before I get back, keep me here so I'll know where I am."
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Inukikyo was right about the candy. You just need to work out daily (or everyother day) and you really shouldn't worry about what kind of foods you eat.
But you should not see your ex. Make up a story, it's not worth it.
I pretty much beat everyone in that game. I scored a lot, but I got in the game late. And I wasn't avoiding your question, I just got didn't see it. Sorry about that. And Duo asked about her when Wufei mentioned that we were seeming like a couple. Duo was just picking on me... but I picked on him... with my fist into his face.
And I don't mnd talking, I'm just very anti-social. Social events drive me crazy, but I always get sucked into them one way or another.
And also, I apologize for my abscence. I've been really busy lately.
And next weekend starting Thursday, I'll be in a very high risk operation located in Dallas. I can't give anymore information other than that. No time for you guys until then, but I'll answer questions when I get back.
But you should not see your ex. Make up a story, it's not worth it.
I pretty much beat everyone in that game. I scored a lot, but I got in the game late. And I wasn't avoiding your question, I just got didn't see it. Sorry about that. And Duo asked about her when Wufei mentioned that we were seeming like a couple. Duo was just picking on me... but I picked on him... with my fist into his face.
And I don't mnd talking, I'm just very anti-social. Social events drive me crazy, but I always get sucked into them one way or another.
And also, I apologize for my abscence. I've been really busy lately.
And next weekend starting Thursday, I'll be in a very high risk operation located in Dallas. I can't give anymore information other than that. No time for you guys until then, but I'll answer questions when I get back.
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Duo the punching bagAnd Duo asked about her when Wufei mentioned that we were seeming like a couple. Duo was just picking on me... but I picked on him... with my fist into his face.

I guess that all happened right before the Libra battle...

Thanx for answering 'Super Star'

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You didn't answer on my question Heero, but I don't mind. I'll ask when you come back
Good luck on your mission, Heero!
Oh, and thank you for answering on my question about you being anti-social. Hn, when I'm in anti-social mood, everybody come to me and ask "What's the matter? Why you don't have good humor?" andI reply "Do I always have to?" and their reply is only "No."

Good luck on your mission, Heero!
Oh, and thank you for answering on my question about you being anti-social. Hn, when I'm in anti-social mood, everybody come to me and ask "What's the matter? Why you don't have good humor?" andI reply "Do I always have to?" and their reply is only "No."

Hey gals, when Wufei said something like that?.. I don't remember...when Wufei mentioned that we were seeming like a couple
How crazy
Stop talking about me as if you know me
How crazy
I?ve been running away from the ship
sinking in the depths of the ocean
Song How Crazy by YUI
Just be yourself.
Stop talking about me as if you know me
How crazy
I?ve been running away from the ship
sinking in the depths of the ocean
Song How Crazy by YUI
Just be yourself.
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- Writing fanfic is not a terrorist action|Mech Pilot Fanboy
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Sorry about the long wait, I've been sleeping. IT WAS NIGHT, OKAY? I don't work around the clock like this site seems to be...
And yes, you can add me to your friends list! I'm honored!! :o
And WW, I doubt I can take your place... I mean, aren't you HAPPY? I think this might be interesting... I just have to find the Bishie Strip Club, that's all...
Hee-chan, do you need help to find Tink? The rodent might be impressed by the power of your resources, and never try to escape again... (highly unlikely) But you can try!
Why did Relena buy that rat-from-Hell anyway? :-? Doesn't she see its evil schemes? You might want to make sure she's well protected. Nobody will expect a hamster attack...
And yes, you can add me to your friends list! I'm honored!! :o

And WW, I doubt I can take your place... I mean, aren't you HAPPY? I think this might be interesting... I just have to find the Bishie Strip Club, that's all...

Hee-chan, do you need help to find Tink? The rodent might be impressed by the power of your resources, and never try to escape again... (highly unlikely) But you can try!
Why did Relena buy that rat-from-Hell anyway? :-? Doesn't she see its evil schemes? You might want to make sure she's well protected. Nobody will expect a hamster attack...
