Ask Heero (A Real Advice Column)

[bookworm]

And who is Sylvia Noventa? Should I be afraid of her? I have a feeling like I should.

*sigh* That makes me think that he has his eyes only on Relena. Of course the other girls r not bad, but Relena foremost on his mind.

So cute!

Then again, only we would think of Sylvia as a rival against Relena (though in my opinion that wouldn't be so...Relena all the way!). Any rivals against Relena for Heero is targeted by us. That is why we think Sylvia is a character worth our attention.

So reiterating my statement: No Sylvia/Etc. for Heero! 1xR 4ever!!!!!

[Kaili Charmer]

Heero, you're funny. It's almost as if you don't know any of the events that happened during the GW series...~cough~
Sylvia Noventa is the chick you went to ask forgiveness or payback or whatever from after you self-detonated gundam wing and recooperated. In the series, you killed her grandfather, Marshall Noventa, accidentally. You went to her, told her that you killed him, and handed her a gun in order to give you whatever she thought you deserved. Of course, she didn't shoot you though she kinda wanted to at first. She called you a coward, i believe... :-?

[Andrea]

That just proves that Heero only has eyes for Miss Relena... :razz:

[SimplyTurquoise]

*reads above posts* :-? *cough* 1x5 back you masses of 1xR... I love them too....

anyways... I've been dealing with this problem since this summer. This is my last year at high school (thank God) and my best friend and I have have known each other for six years. Starting this summer she 'techinically' just got her first real boyfriend and their the kind that are nauseatingly cute and are seperated at the hip. Now he's a nice guy... no problems with him... his friends are a part of that outer circle of friends everyone has. (You know, like a ripple along water, you have the center of your best friends and then friends and then friends of friends and it continues on). But as it is, she is---was (?) my best friend.

I've gotten really close with a lot of other people this year as has she, but that has a lot to do with the fact that I've been forced into a situation where not only has my best friend sort of not really ditched, but doesn't really hang out with us outside of school anymore. She rather hangs out with all her boyfriends friends (ie. that outer circle thing again) and its interesting because I have hung out with her a total of five maybe six times outside of school starting from late June this year.

Pretty sad as it used to be us hanging out just about every weekend last year. Now it is a two way road, and my hermit ways have left me to not call her as much as I should have, but still... she hardly notices when I'm not there and it doesn't seem to bother her that we don't hang out anymore.

I dont' know, but I've found a pretty good friend whom I hang out with now almost everyday and I'm no longer that much of a hermit anymore, but I dont' want to lose that best friend of mine, after all we've known each other for half my school life.

So, I apologize for the asolutely long and horrendous post as I'm sure your eyes are drooping now, but you know I had to talk about it somewhere to someone and if any of you could comment, give advice and all that lovely stuff you people seem to do so well then I'd really appreciate it. Thanks...

SimplyTurquoise

[illiterate]

To ST,

I had asimilair problem my senior year in hs. It really didn't have much affect on me thanks to a certian personality disorder but the whole situation did, and still is a year later, bothering our other Best friend almost to the point of rage when the whole topic is brought up. I'll give you the same advice I've always given them. Just keep the lines of communiction open. Tell her how you feel about the whole thing and if she really cares she'll make an effort. In the end you'll end up seeing less of eachother and you'll find new friends to fill in the time but when you are together and shes not worrying over her boyfriend, it'll still be the same as before, you just got to cherish those times.

Hey I could say a lot more on the subject, but I really got to shut up before I get lost in my own personal experience. Maybe you'll get lucky and they'll break up. Whatever happens good luck.

[White Witch]

Hm... so basically, everyone doesn't mind Sylvia living in this La-dee-da world of ours, just as long as she doesn't (or original characters or whoever) get in between Heero and Relena's relationship?

Good enough! ^_^

And I agree with everyone, Heero HAS his eyes only for Relena... *sigh*

TO SimplyTurquoise-san : Wow, hard problem. But, of course, it's your last year in high school, and maybe your friend just wanted to see new things before she leaves high school memories and whatnot. and maybe yu should do the same and make the most of your high school days.

... Yeah, I know, I suck at advice!

[Wingnut]

And who is Sylvia Noventa? Should I be afraid of her? I have a feeling like I should.

She is the granddaughter of Marshal Noventa of the Allience. He was in the plane that Heero destroyed, when he mistook it for an OZ craft, over the New Edwards base.

[pilot03]

Everyone makes mistakes....Heero's sorry.

[Alex Sinisterra]

I didn't know who Sylvia Noventa was until now.... Ohhh--New information here...

[Heero]

I made a post last night, and I even submitted it. I even remember reading over it. For some reason, it didn't show up.

Anyway, Sylvia was one of the many people I encountered along my missions. It's hard to remember every single face I meet. (And on a side note, I knew she wouldn't shoot, either) However, Relena's the jealous type, let's hope she doesn't read this.

And don't worry SimplyTurquoise, it's perfectly natural. In time, the boy/girlfriend aquires higher priority and slowly phases out others. It can be sad and hard to deal with, but seeing as though you are nearing the end of high school, you will have to deal with sepperation. It's part of life, even thoguh it is hard. She's happy, let her be. But if she breaks up with him (which can easily happen) then you can help her out then. As long as you don't lose complete contact, you shuold still be able to be friends though.